But My Queen Knows

Taking self responsibility is not for the faint of heart. This summer I initiated a 60 day self responsibility challenge with a few of my girlfriends.

Every day we would take inventory of the ways in which our victim thought patterns were trying to play out in our lives and then we’d share action steps to choose our queen-like energy instead.

Some days it felt like a breeze. But some days the victim-ey thought staked her claim, set up camp and had a raging fit before she would even budge. Those days were tougher, and it felt easier to function in the immature vibration of the victim than it did to choose self responsibility.

It’s much harder to say “I see where I’m choosing victim thought patterns and choose to be self responsible in this moment.” On those days, to assist myself, my pen took to the pages of my journal with a practice where I wrote the victim's thoughts and then I wrote the reframe from my queen energy.

For example:

My victim feels sad they haven’t called me back.

But my queen would call them and tell him exactly what I need from them.

My victim feels anxious about something happening at work.
But my queen knows how to hold the duality of patience.

My victim feels “why me” about everything right now.

But my queen knows that taking inventory of my gratitude is an instant energy shift.

Drop your victim thoughts and start using your queen reframe now. ♥️

Xo,

Sara