Sometimes I wonder when I’ll fully surrender to being the woman who talks about P*ssy on the internet. Some days I get swallowed up in the shame of my potential outraged loved ones or past colleagues or just general bullshit fears.
But today is not that day.
Today is the day that my outrageousness gets to shine through because when a woman is in touch with her P*ssy she is in touch with her power. I’m not just talking s*xual power, her life force power, her will to live and love and make an impact. I’m not just taking about the physical body part but rather the energy of P*ssy. She who bleeds but does not die. She who births life and creation into the world. She who has 8,000 nerve endings in the cl*terius alone that’s sole purpose is pleasure. (Scroll back for a previous posts about how this word made me want to vom a few years ago, and see just how far I’ve pressed my edges of comfort for the sake of reclamation).
P*ssys are just like women. They love to be adored, affirmed, admired, praised and even worshiped. But if you’re reading this and you own a P*ssy, chances are yours doesn’t know they love adoration because they’ve maybe never experienced it. Instead they’ve been subject to messaging about looking weird, having an odor that needs managing, needing to be trimmed or manicured in some way. And just like human beings, when they are subject to critic and judgement, they don’t tend to grow or come alive, no, they shrivel up, stay small and self loathing. Compound that with thousands of years of people with P*ssys not having access to education, power, money, independence and so on… and yes, you bet we find ourselves in a place of having some work to do, people.
One of the most powerful ways to change your relationship to P*ssy, it’s by opening a line of communication with her. Just like you would in making a new friend. Right now I have a few of my 1:1 clients going through this process. Their homework is to say things they appreciate love and adore about their P*ssy. They are listening to the wisdom and guidance of their p*ssy. They are turning over the weight of day to day decision making to p*ssy…. “Do I want sushi or steak?” “What do I want to watch on Netflix?” We start small and then something amazing usually happens. A sense of inner trust begins to build when you listen and dignify who you’re in relationship with.
This is always a life-changing process to move into alignment with your greatest power source. Because when you’re plugged into p*ssy your plugged into YOU. To your inner yes and no. To your desires, wants and needs. To your fullest expression of self.
Last weekend I dipped back into a weekend with my business school friends and college buddies and it wasn’t lost on me that my profession is now helping women connect with their p*ssy and encouraging things like panty free Fridays as homework. And I wouldn’t want it any other way.
Our p*ssys are alive, they have a heartbeat and they listen. So when you talk to them and communicate and relate to P*ssy, you gain your own sacred relationship that is different from what society has told us to feel about pussys. It sounds crazy (at least I thought so at first) but you can actually talk to these parts of self.
If you are cut off from your p*ssy, which is the center of receiving. Your likely also cut off from receiving from the world. Cut off from receiving goodness, joy, appreciation, acknowledgement, compliments and pleasure.
Coming into relationship with P*ssy is to come into relationship with your deepest truth.