Life is going to rip things from us. The degree of pain we feel when this happens is often in direct correlation to how deep we loved the thing that’s being ripped away. And when you’re in the throws of this mucky muddy swamp, its hard to feel good. It feels nearly impossible.
That’s when we must got to our toolboxes. We must find the thing that helps us relate to the pain in a way that is not victimizing ourselves further but instead is empowering. We must make ourselves right in however we are feeling. Because when we are in agreement with ourselves, we can move through the hard times at 10x speed. It’s when we are sitting in disagreement with ourselves which might sounds like “I don’t know why I’m feeling this way” or “I’m so annoying I can’t just move on from this, why am I still stuck here” or “No one else spirals this out of control.”
We have to honor the heartbreak, the pain, the muddy waters in order to move through them. We have to honor how we relate to these things. We have to make ourselves right here.
The fastest path to this is clearing out your physical vessel. Because the body keeps the score and is holding it all right now whether you’re aware of it or not. And when you can clean out the clogged pipes of your vessel, you create space for what’s waiting for you on the other side. A woman who is actually IN her body is the most powerful force on earth.