💭People have gravitated toward me my whole life. But for most of my life I was afraid of their attention. So I’d dull my glow. When someone complimented me, I’d downplay their compliment by shrugging it off. I couldn’t energetically hold their compliment. Sometimes if I felt someone getting “too magnetized” I’d do something immature to push them away and create that space between.
As a women’s empowerment coach knowing everything I know now, my younger self didn’t feel safe enough to hold the attention. I didn’t feel safe enough to hold my magnetism, to feel my shine, or to let my beautiful soul be seen.
It didn’t feel safe to have something acknowledged about me that I didn’t believe in myself. I didn’t see my shine. I didn’t see my glow. I didn’t see my greatness. I stuffed it all down and was an jerk to myself instead.
The toxic culture we live in benefits from women not seeing their greatness. They profit off it (hello beauty and diet industries). In contrast, the feminine culture we are moving toward benefits from as many women shining as possible.
👑The way that I moved through this is by having my greatness reflected back to me by an amazing sisterhood of women. And by them cheering me on as I claimed it for myself.
And now I hold the mirror for my clients and reflect their brilliance back to them.
I’m curious, does this resonate? What’s your relationship to your glow?✨
If you’re interesting in learning how to energetically hold your greatness, your glow, your innate magnetism that you were born with, the first step is to create inner safety to hold your greatness. This is what I show my clients how to do.