If you’re dating, don’t wait for someone to fulfill your desires for pleasure.
✨ When you claim pleasure as a source of your own empowerment, you’ll date differently. You’ll have more shine, more magnetism, and radiance.✨
In fact, the way you self pleasure is crucial for the quality of partner you attract.
If you’re in a relationship, the more you are dependent on someone for your turn on, the more the relationship can lean toward neediness. If you’re waiting for your partner to turn yourself on because you can't fully turn yourself on, it doesn't allow you to truly co create in your relationship.
We start with one question...
🔥 Does it feel safe for you to feel pleasure? 🔥 Does it feel safe for your to have mind-blowing org!sms? 🔥Does it feel safe for you to be truly s-xually expressed?
Sometimes it doesn't feel safe to get what we truly want, in the nervous system and emotional body.
Sometimes deep down our bodies aren't in alignment with what we truly want.
They throw up blocks and resistances that get in the way of what we want. Then we find ourselves in a shame spiral around how we show up. And shame blocks us from having what we want in the first place.
⭐️Can you relate to being in one of these cycles? I personally know it well.⭐️